Dori makes it all better

For most of you Dori is a name you hear almost as often as you hear Shilo when we talk about our family and that is because Dori is just that, family. We got Dori girl 6 months before Shilo was born and despite the "fear" many had, we never questioned it one bit. Dori may be a "Pitbull" to most but to us she has always been our Dori Girl, our pitiful pittbull. I knew from the start Dori would be an amazing dog. For one, I knew my big brother would have never given me a dog that would not have been a great dog for my family but there was something about Dori and her curious, cute little head tilt that just told me she would be the best dog for our family. Well that has turned out to be truer than true, 3 1/2 years later, she not only is the greatest dog you could ever have, but she is Shilo's best friend. Her side kick, her playmate, her comfort, her everything. There isn't a momentous (or even minimal) occasion that Dori girl has not been a part of spanning from bringing Shilo home when she was first born, her first birthday, first steps, to making the 24 hour drive to Seattle keeping Shilo company in the backseat and the newest attraction, watching Shilo brush her teeth nightly She is more than a dog, to us, she is another person in our home. Like most family members, we have many names for her too: Dori Girl, Stinky, Dori T, D, Doris and most recently added, Claude for her ever so graceful trips and falls up and down the stairs. But tonight was one of those moments when I realized just how amazing the relationship between Shilo and Dori really is. Ian had soccer tonight but unusual to most Monday nights, he came home before his game so we could all have dinner together, and he could give Shilo a bath. It was a nice surprise for Shilo (and I) and we enjoyed the hour or so we had with Ian before he left. When he left, Shilo raced downstairs to say goodbye and close the door and then we raced immediately upstairs to our bedroom, pulled up the blinds and watched and waved as "daddy" drove away. Suddenly, Shilo looked at me with tears in her eyes and says, "mama, I didn't give daddy a big smoocheroo!" She was instantly upset and just kept explaining that she wanted daddy to come home so she could give him a smoocheroo. I picked her up and sat her on my lap, I hugged her and explained to her that daddy would be home soon and that when he got home he would give her a big smoocheroo. She just kept crying, tears streaming down her face, so sad that she didn't give daddy a kiss. I made one last attempt and asked her, "what about if you give daddy two kisses tomorrow morning when you wake up?" To which the reply sobbing was still, "no mama, I want him to come home." Finally I realized my ideas were not making it better so I said, "Honey I know you are very sad. I am so sorry you are sad. But daddy loves you and he will give you big kisses when he gets home. But, I know that does not make it better now so what will make it better now?" Shilo looked at me with those big brown eyes and calmly said, "Dori will. Can you call her mama?" So of course I did and Dori, as usual came bouncing up the stairs, tail wagging happy to oblige. I explained to Dori that Shilo was sad over not being able to give daddy a kiss and that she needed some love. To this, Dori, on her own accord, nudged over to Shilo, gave her a huge kiss on her face to which Shilo smiled and then wrapped her arms around her furry friends neck with a huge smile. Dori sat accomodating Shilo's needs and it was back to business as usual. Dori girl makes it all better!

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